Maybe He's Just Not That Into You...Still
Shedeiky Hamilton
Issue date: 3/24/09 Section: Impact Staff Blogs
March 15 - "I had a great time last night. My date and I went to have dinner and then we saw the movie but I haven't seen or heard from him in three weeks," my friend Rebecca once told me.
It's so funny how women are not aware when a guy just wants to have a good time rather than when he intends to have a relationship. So many women get carried away by men and their charm, that she isn't able to see the guy for who he really is. Just the same, some women don't know the difference between getting married and being with someone that cares for them.
This has now become such an issue today that Greg Behrendt best-seller book "He's Just Not That into You: The No-Excuses to Understanding Guys" is now playing in theatres starring Jennifer Aniston. It has become a manual of sorts for women all across the country - comparing notes from the movie to what has happened to them in real life.
But are women really that eager and stupid that they will settle for whatever treatment a guy has to give in order to obtain some sort of self satisfaction? Will they take the abuse for the ring, the kid and/or the house?
Come on, ladies move on. Don't settle for less. Never believe that there is not someone out there that is better for you. If you go out with a guy and he doesn't call you after the date, forget him. If he is into you, you will definitely know.
Men are made of cop-outs and cover stories. It's like they attended "The School of Excuses." Don't let the "baby, I love you," or the "honey" fool you. What can I say? That's what some men are cut out far. Nothing more. Nothing less.
Most of these men are all about going out with you, then breaking up with you, and then have the audacity to want to continue sleeping with you.
Some men have ladies for all different types of occasions. The "one of the guys chick" for Monday Night Football. The gamer for the Dave and Busters' Tuesday night. The philosopher to watch "Lost" with on Wednesday nights. The girl who likes to drink and dance for Thursday night. The elegant woman for a Friday night dinner. The down to earth girl who loves bowling on a Saturday night. And on Sunday, why not take the athlete to the range to hit some golf balls?
It may seem funny, but I guess that's why many of you probably have wondered why the guy you're dating can only go out with you on a Thursday night. Yes, you're the Thursday girl. Women be smart when you break up with a guy that he tries to convince you to take him back because he has changed. Remember you're taking back the same guy - the same one who broke up with you
Don't feel embarrassed though, realizing immediately that a guy is not into you should be your number one priority. Don't be in too much of a hurry to give your heart to someone who might not give theirs back to you.
Just face it.
He's Just Not That Into You.
It's so funny how women are not aware when a guy just wants to have a good time rather than when he intends to have a relationship. So many women get carried away by men and their charm, that she isn't able to see the guy for who he really is. Just the same, some women don't know the difference between getting married and being with someone that cares for them.
This has now become such an issue today that Greg Behrendt best-seller book "He's Just Not That into You: The No-Excuses to Understanding Guys" is now playing in theatres starring Jennifer Aniston. It has become a manual of sorts for women all across the country - comparing notes from the movie to what has happened to them in real life.
But are women really that eager and stupid that they will settle for whatever treatment a guy has to give in order to obtain some sort of self satisfaction? Will they take the abuse for the ring, the kid and/or the house?
Come on, ladies move on. Don't settle for less. Never believe that there is not someone out there that is better for you. If you go out with a guy and he doesn't call you after the date, forget him. If he is into you, you will definitely know.
Men are made of cop-outs and cover stories. It's like they attended "The School of Excuses." Don't let the "baby, I love you," or the "honey" fool you. What can I say? That's what some men are cut out far. Nothing more. Nothing less.
Most of these men are all about going out with you, then breaking up with you, and then have the audacity to want to continue sleeping with you.
Some men have ladies for all different types of occasions. The "one of the guys chick" for Monday Night Football. The gamer for the Dave and Busters' Tuesday night. The philosopher to watch "Lost" with on Wednesday nights. The girl who likes to drink and dance for Thursday night. The elegant woman for a Friday night dinner. The down to earth girl who loves bowling on a Saturday night. And on Sunday, why not take the athlete to the range to hit some golf balls?
It may seem funny, but I guess that's why many of you probably have wondered why the guy you're dating can only go out with you on a Thursday night. Yes, you're the Thursday girl. Women be smart when you break up with a guy that he tries to convince you to take him back because he has changed. Remember you're taking back the same guy - the same one who broke up with you
Don't feel embarrassed though, realizing immediately that a guy is not into you should be your number one priority. Don't be in too much of a hurry to give your heart to someone who might not give theirs back to you.
Just face it.
He's Just Not That Into You.
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